After I lost my first 50
lbs. (incredible to say that, by the way), I felt so great that I KNEW
everybody would notice. How could they
not? I saw it in the mirror, I was
wearing smaller clothes, of course they'd all see what a great job I was doing
FINALLY.
At about this time, I
attended a couple of functions with people I hadn't seen in months or even
years and I just KNEW they'd all gush over my successful weight loss. Imagine my disappointment when NO ONE
noticed, not even my friends who knew I was losing weight. If they did notice, no one said
anything. I remember sitting at the
table, eating lunch among these people, and in my head I was screaming,
"BUT CAN'T YOU SEE I'VE FINALLY LOST SOME WEIGHT??!!!!!" Driving home, I felt defeated - after all that
work and no one noticed? How
tragic!
Then I realized I was doing this for me, not for anyone else. Who cared if no one noticed! I knew I was losing weight and I knew how much work it had taken to get me to this point. That's all that mattered. I also realized that because I was so huge to begin with, it would take a lot more before it'd be visible to other people. After that little talk with myself, I stopped worrying about it and just kept plugging along with my new lifestyle, one day at a time, one week at a time. Once again, I learned a valuable lesson: don't worry about other people, do it for yourself.
Then I realized I was doing this for me, not for anyone else. Who cared if no one noticed! I knew I was losing weight and I knew how much work it had taken to get me to this point. That's all that mattered. I also realized that because I was so huge to begin with, it would take a lot more before it'd be visible to other people. After that little talk with myself, I stopped worrying about it and just kept plugging along with my new lifestyle, one day at a time, one week at a time. Once again, I learned a valuable lesson: don't worry about other people, do it for yourself.
It probably took another
20 lbs. or so before people started asking me, "Have you lost some weight?" Then a
funny thing happened once I had lost about 95 lbs. All of a sudden I was the one who didn't see
the transformation in the mirror anymore and the only time I noticed I lost
weight was from the numbers on the scale or when my clothes became baggy
again. Yet almost all at once, I started
getting incredible reactions from people, even from people whom I'd been seeing
all along during my journey. From that point on, the surprised faces, the
congratulations, the hugs, the excitement other people showed at my having lost
so much weight, the "you look fantastic!" comments, it was all
absolutely intoxicating! The word
"intoxicating" describes it perfectly because I fed off that (pun
intended) and it was very motivating. It
boosted my ego like a drug! No foods I
ever ate gave me nearly the same feeling, not even my beloved pastries or cakes.
There was a funny incident
at my allergist's office very recently.
Every three weeks or so I get allergy shots. The gals who work in the office have known me
forever and I always talk to most of them.
They knew I was losing weight and sometimes they'd comment on how good I
was doing because they could tell I continued to lose weight. One day in particular though, after I had
lost about 105 lbs. total, I walked in and they all acted like I had lost 100
lbs. overnight. The reactions I got were
mostly, "WOW!" I kept thinking, "But you just saw me
three weeks ago and I've only lost like one pound since." I realized then that because I was starting
to wear more body-hugging clothes instead of my typical baggy T-shirts, that my
weight loss was even more pronounced. As
they took me to the back office to give me my shots, one of the gals was
telling the others we passed along the way, "Look at Vilma!" Once again, I got the "WOW!"
response. A couple of them asked me
questions about my journey, and as I started to tell them, I realized that four
other gals had come into the office, they were surrounding me, and listening to
my every word. I felt like I was giving
a speech! Talk about boosting my ego!
So I guess the lesson learned here is don't let food be your friend, your comfort. Instead, use your success and the ego boost that gives you to make you happy. It's a much healthier way to go.
So I guess the lesson learned here is don't let food be your friend, your comfort. Instead, use your success and the ego boost that gives you to make you happy. It's a much healthier way to go.
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